Clearly the op (parent) is in a situation involving his child that is upsetting. While some of you have clear opinions concerning parenting, that is not what the op came here to discuss. In future posts, it would be more helpful to base any information/suggestions on the question and not the poster.
As Denise offered in another post,
The “quick and dirty” goals of the forums is to provide:
- Useful feedback which includes various perspectives to consider - agreement isn't required but civility is.
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Concerning participation we ask:
- Offer your perspective
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- Agree to disagree respectfully