My father took out insurance policy with me as beneficiary when I was a kid. He died 2 yrs ago and my stepsister and cousin are co-executors. Insruance company says both of them have to sign & notarize policy together on the same date to get it out of estate's name and into my name for me to collect. My cousin is willing, but my stepsister keeps saying she is too busy. Every month she delays the policy becomes worth less. How can I make her execute the documents I need? She lives 300 miles away (in same state) but I live on disability and have no car.