nota-girlygirl:My questions are
Probably unanswerable here because nobody knows any of the particulars of the case. Your questions are best answered by a local attorney that is representing you in this case. If the other side has an attorney and you do not know the correct legal procedures, you are likely to get run over and bloddied before this is all over.
"Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience." - Mark Twain