Your brother most likley had a duty to split the net estate among Dads kids.
But you need to lay out on paper the precise titles and names--stuff that was JWROS passed directly to other person, stuff in trust passes as per trust--and odds are if stuff was titled to Mary Smith and its clear that Mary Smith is also knwn as Mary Jones and no fraud is intended that Mary Smith gets it --
Its quite possible that Dad set it up so that his girl friend got it all and the NET in his pile was zippo
Dad is NOT required to leave a dime to his kids in NY! And if he left stuff by title that would trump both a will or no will sutuation!