When we separated, we were both living in Oklahoma. The state of OK had given me custody of them as far as full legal and he had visitation rights. We both had moved, him to CA to join the National Guard and me to Maine and I took the children with me. We had both agreed on this move and informed OK of our decision.
The new order that was written is from CA. As far as physical custody, the papers read: "Physical custody to: (person with whom the child lives) - Richard & Mary Osborn". I had signed the papers here in Maine which he sent from California. It stated that since we live in different states, he would have full legal custody since it is easier for him to make medical and school decisions. The physical custody would be shared and they would live with him 50% of the time and me 50% of the time.
I have gone to speak with a lawyer. I have an appointment on November 11th. It is the soonest that I can get in to see him. He was referred to me by a friend who was going through custody issues as well.