mackykam:I received a letter from defendant;s attorney
saying he would proceed to Court by motion to
compel dismissal and rpovide money for
attorney's fees, etc.. Does anyone know if
this can be done without my being present?
Yes, it can.
If you don't properly respond to the motion.
When your opponent files a motion you have the opportunity to respond to the motion and explain why it shouldn't be granted. If you don't do that, the chances are good that the motion will be granted because you didn't oppose it.
When you file a response you can ask for oral argument, and if the judge grants a hearing you both get to discuss the motion.
If you don't ask for oral argument, the judge will make a decision based on the paperwork without either of you present.