I will not fight the custody of the child because she will bring up my disability and all that. I definitely will lose just because of my medical records. She has been employed for the past 11 years, not a druggie/not a party goer...
Yes, she is working now and has worked in the past
i am currently on long term disability. I do not work.
THe house is not upside down. We have 200k equity.
This is not a case of depression or a new change (new child). I found out after our marraige and my move. That , that is what her mom has done to her dad. She is trying to do the same to me. WHile he stayed and cut ties with his family and probably his happiness I am not going to do that. She is a very stubborn person, when I say how I feel, she just ridicules me and calls me rebellion kid. IF i ask "lets go watch movie, or "lets go out eat, or just go out to enjoy the sunshine" the answer is "NO we don't have money" Our monthly income is $7000. Our house is barely 2000/mo .
Before marriage she would tell me how she wants to have family and be around family as her family is not very close. But I found out that was all a lie, she wants a life like that and lead a life her mom has. Money is everything to them. It's as if it their religion. can't do this, can't do that, will not go see family member because tickets are expensive. that is family members they have not seen in years. I do not have a dollar in my pocket.