Do you have a copy of the PFA?
Does it say anything about having a hearing within a certain number of days?
At any rate, my advice is this. Stay away from her, stay away from where she lives even if you have to stay someplace else, don't talk to her, don't email her. She WILL have you arrested if you violate the terms of the PFA.
Doesn't matter if she isn't there, don't go there.
If there is still stuff there that belongs to you, petition the court to release the items to somebody who represents.
Know this: she is hostile and vindictive and just waiting for you to make a mistake so she can have you arrested.