My wife and I were in the middle of adopting two foster Children, and in the middle of the adoption, my wife finds an old friend on Face book and moves him in, She then starts seeing this person after a couple of weeks she decides to kick me out, so I explained to her that If we were not going to be togher, I wanted the adoption stopped, well she accused me of being Selfish and not thinking of the Children etc. but I did not change my mind, and a couple of days later I contacted my pastor and he agreed that the adoption should be stopped, and she got upset and was cussing at me etc, so then I tried to stop the adoption and the courts said it was too late, it was approximately 2 days past, and they didn't care about he situation and in my opinion the best interest of the children no longer mattered, they were out of the states hands broken home didn't matter, so anyways I have not seen the children in two years and the wife is finally filling for divorce and becasue she is on social security, and draws food stamps and medicaid for the children the state is nailing me for support, this is not right and the mother is receiving almost $2000 in adoption subsidy for these two children,
Any ways this adoption should not of been finalized, and the wife mislead me as well as the adoption worker on several accounts, and I have no interest in these two children
The wife is planning on adopting two more children as soon as the divorce is final as a single parent,
Is there anyway of ending this adoption or getting my name removed ?
If she can adopt as a single parent then why can't she be the sole parent on these two ?