Yes the decision went against me but if it were for the right reasons that is different. When a GAL outright lies and fabricates things in a GAL report (which he admitted doing), says discrimintory things, refuses to meet with me with the children, refuses to take evidence, etc... I don't think I should just suck it up. BTW i was advised by an attorney to tape record the GAL which I did so quite a bit of this is on tape!
Unfortunately my ex was an alcoholic and drug user. I rarely drink and do not use drugs. i had full custody before the divorce. She got busted by drug task force writing her own fake perscriptions, DUI, and abused the children (that is why I had full custody). In the divorce she didn't even ask for full custody but that is what the judge gave her. You may wonder I did? I spoke up when I was being discrimated against, It was made very clear that at a young age it is the mothers job to raise the children and I should focus on work to financially support them.
With all this in mind it should be of no surprise that both of our kids for several years have failed most of there classes, had severe disciplinary problems (dozens of suspentions and detentions, and were in the process being expelled from school.She then decided to pull our 12 year old out of school and enroll him in an online school (in which he failed)! There wasn't much i could do about most of this when I wasn't able to see the children on my exchanges. She refused to exchange them and the court refused to enforce my parenting rights.
BTW my ex has been an escort even while at one time she was recieving over 5k a month in support and got hundreds of thousands in the divorce settlement.
SO SUCK IT UP? AT WHAT POINT DO YOU GIVE UP ON YOUR CHILDREN'S SAFETY, EDUCATION, AND OVERALL WELL BEING? Like I said earlier in my original post there is quite a bit more to it!
Before you label me as just another upset parent from the outcome of custody or divorce perhaps be open minded about how the kids are effected when Court officers may have a different agenda because of race, sex, or religeon. Not to mention a few other things that I cant mention here......
I am open to any comments that you have. There are things I can learn from response even if they are not favorable to me. With that in mind I do appreciate the time you have allready took to read my story and respond to it.