WHEN A WIFE ABANDONS HOME & TAKES KIDS AWAY

Brother needs to consult with an attorney; a court order CAN force her to bring back the kids as fathers DO have rights, too.  Same with the marital money; a court should be alloting the assets fairly.

But none of that will happen without a court order.  Dad needs to spend a few dollars on a consultation with a family law attorney.  Good luck.

It's not kidnapping to move your own children.

He needs to contact a local divorce attorney, file for divorce and ask for an emergency custody order.

You are telling me that it is not kidnapping when someone gets up takes all her things, takes her kids without anyone knowing - not even the kids. The older kid freaked out about the situation.  The spouse worried wondering if they are even okay. The kids thinking they are going to Miami for some fun but not knowing that they probably will never be with the dad like it used to be. All because their mom just loves the Miami lifestyle.

The kids didn't ask to be away from their dad or away from the people who are the ones who take care of them.

I don't understand but, to me it is kidnapping to take someone away without them knowing the concept of what really is going on. Where are their rights? (Just because it's the mom that took them, it's not kidnap)? 

Am I still wrong for thinking this way?

It's not kidnapping because they are her children.  Unless there was a court order prohibiting her from taking the children, she was free to do that.

The money in the bank account - marital money.  He doesn't get to claim it's "his" money. 

He can absolutely fight for the kids return. He needs to consult local counsel and file a motion for their return and for him to have custody.

OK.... so you are saying that if there is no cort pappers i could get my kids? my wife left me and has my kids. she is leaving with another man and has had my son in about 6 school's and he is onely in 1st grad. the guy that she is with drink's and has beat her up the last time she left me she was with him. and the guy does drugs too. so if I find out if this is where she is if my child is out side playing I could pick them up and leave??? and then i would go file pappers on her.... there has been no legal pappers at all and she tells me that my kids do not ask about me and they dont talk about me I know she is just trying to hurt me...????????

Consult a local attorney. You should probably file for an emergency custody order first.

But if i get my kids then i could go down and get a layer and get the works going I have not seen my kids for over a month or so. and I know they are around drugs and drinking the guy that she was with. had hit my wife and she went back to him and he had hit my child on his back because my son told me. there has been no cort pappers at all so I could get them and there is nonthing she could do.

As advised previously:

Consult a local attorney. You should probably file for an emergency custody order first.