So why are you not demanding answers out of Sis with as loud a voice as you can find?
I have demanded answers from her, but since she has refused to talk to me for at least 8 months, I don't expect any response. I have demanded receipts and information from her, but I doubt she will send it to me. She did send me an e-mail saying that she didn't need my "Drama".
Since I just found out about this within the last week, I am gathering information to find out what I can do. Since I am in AZ and the estate is in WA, I am pretty much limited to the internet. and phone.
The value of the house was appraised at about $250,000. Since she let it go, I think that my 1/3 of the estate that she lost would be about $20,000. I am trying to contact the reverse mortgage company for information.
She also paid for the funeral using my mother's credit after she died. She works in a bank and transferred the funds. I am sure that the records can be traced.
Since she has led everyone to believe that she was executor and just walked away from everything without contacting any of the beneficiaries, is that a "breach of fiduciary duties"? My parents were collectors of antiques and there was a lot of stuff left in the house. I heard that she was getting notices to remove it by a certain date or lose it.
At this point I just need to find an attorney in WA that will give me an idea of what to do.