adjuster jack:If you've made payments all this time and the
mortgage company has not foreclosed, contact
the mortgage company about re-affirming.
They'll probably be able to send you forms
and instructions.
A reaffirmation agreement needs to be approved by the bankruptcy court. Once the bankruptcy is closed it would have to be reopened (hefty filing fee) in order to file a reaffirmation agreement.
Absent a reaffirmation agreement, you were discharged of personal responsibility for the mortgage debt, so in some ways the bank is correct that you could "walk away" from it.
If you and the bank can reach an agreement regarding refinancing of the mortgage, that might be less expensive and less time consuming (even with points & closing costs) than paying an attorney to file a motion (hefty filing fee in addition to attorney fees) to reopen your bankruptcy just to file a reaffirmation agreement.
I suppose you could contact your attorney to ask whether the mortgage holder ever sent a reaffirmation agreement to the attorney's office.
The way these things are supposed to go, the mortgage holder should send the attorney a reaffirmation agreement, the attorney should review it and if acceptable, forward it to you for your signature, then you return it to your attorney who returns it to the mortgage holder.
MAYBE - if the attorney did receive a reaffirmation agreement and just dropped the ball and didn't forward it to you for your signature - the attorney MIGHT agree to absorb any costs associated with fixing it.
More likely (I've seen this hundreds of times...) the mortgage holder dropped the ball and didn't get a reaff to the attorney, or didn't do it before the case was closed. Since reaffirmation agreements tend to benefit the creditor more than they benefit the debtor, debtors' attorneys aren't typically in the habit of chasing after lenders for reaff agreements if the lender doesn't get its act together to send one.