Well, I would like to wash my hands clean of him. However, I don't want him coming back later on down the road. He is really screwed up in the head and I don't want him messing up my child's life. He's violent, an addict in so many ways (drinking, etc.) I have screen shots from his online activities and certain things he would say like referencing a nose party. He is still very much an immature party boy and has no intentions of sacraficing his ways for a child.
Yes, he really does think it's okay to get women pregnant and sign over his rights. My child will make child number two. Mind you, the other baby was born 4 days after I conceived. I keep jokingly saying I need to get a petition going to get him fixed.
My husband will be getting a paternity test as soon as the baby is born. Him and I are still friendly with each other. We just couldn't make it as husband and wife. He said there's a part of him that wants to remain on the birth certificate just so I don't have to deal with the other, but I won't have him do that because I know it is morally wrong.
My only fear is him coming back at a later date to try and mess things up some more. It's what he's good at.
As far as supporting my child, that much I am not worried about. I have a job, a house, a car, and I'm currently in school so soon enough I will have the ability to have an even better job than what I have right now.