honestly, I did not read your entire post.
I can tell you this.
My ex-wife called 911 while she was biting and hitting me. I got away because I knew the police officer who arrived and I had my bags packed and ready.
I honestly don't care what anyone here tells you, I can tell you from first hand experience, it's not fair to a man in most places. My wife hit me, bit me in my hand, and chased after me with a baseball bat. Guess who they were taking to jail?
When the police arrived at my doorstep, my wife was out in the driveway, hitting me with a baseball bat.
Care to guess who they were planning to take to jail?